The path to prostate orgasm is full of mystery and bliss.
Its like chasing the dragon.
The prostate is a fickle partner and the journey towards your first Big-O will be long.
You won't achieve it the first time you do it.
To most guys it takes about one year to reach it.
That's me being upfront with you…
Prostate milking isn't about finding the right single key. It's more like finding a combination, cracking the password.
I have simplified it to the 3 key ingredients.
I call it a three-legged stool technique.
I believe there are three critical ingredients (& tons of subtle flavors) to prostate play success:
Those three ingredients are:
- #1 — The right prostate massager + the right lube with it
- #2 — The right arousal
- #3 — The right process (together with right expectations)
The process + arousal guide is here. (it's my masterpiece, spent over 100 hours constructing it after successfully consulting many guys)
In this article you’ll not learn any of the keys… but you'll be able to read the other men success stories and receive the big picture introduction to prostate milking.
It will help setting the RIGHT EXPECTATIONS.
Here's what we're going to cover:
- What is Prostate Milking?
- What Does A Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?
- How To Have a Prostate Orgasm?
- What Are The Best Prostate Massagers & How To Use One?
- Prostate Milking Tips and Stories From Real People
#1 — What is Prostate Milking?
Originally prostate milking was suggested by doctors for medical reason to prevent the chances of getting prostate cancer.
Later Aneros (company who made the first prostate massagers) discovered that men got hooked and used prostate milking more for pleasure… than only medical reasons.
That's when prostate milking was born.
Nowadays as more and more men become open minded about sex… They discover prostate milking.
Basically when you enter finger or toy in your rectum (anus) and curl it just right, you'll notice that you gain enormous pleasure from the stimulation.
You'll discover you can have a lot more different and oftentimes more intense male orgasm.
Best of all, oftentimes it's a non-ejaculatory orgasm, which means you can repeat it as many times as you can…
Who said only women were multi-orgasmic hah?
#2 — What Does A Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?
“A prostate orgasm never originates in your genitals. There is heightened sensitivity but it doesn’t start there.”
“It’s also recommended if your massaging your prostate with a toy made for such, or your fingers, or anything else, that you do not touch your penis.
When you start to apply pressure to your prostate you probably won’t feel much of anything.
Prostate orgasms are more difficult to obtain and require practice.
There isn’t much sensitivity at first so you have to keep trying.
I’ll just describe my first time rather than the feeling.
My first prostate orgasm was a few months ago. I had an aneros massager, made for prostate massaging, and decided to go for it.
I had everything set up. I had gotten a shower to clean myself, as well as relax, then I read the instructions. It gave all manner of exercises but it also said experiment.
Inserting was not weird for me as I’m a gay male and would gladly take a cock up my ass any day, but nestling it was strange.
The way the toy is shaped gives a definite advantage. It has a p tab, an extension that presses in on your taint and gives the top of the massager more freedom. The massager is not hand operated. You don’t wiggle it around. You use your muscles and contractions of your ass to move it.
Anyway, I was laying down and doing the initial exercises. Inhale and contract, exhale and relax, and that alone felt amazing.
However, I went to try another position and in sitting up the aneros hit a sweet spot.
I let out a loud groan, and then clapped my hand over my mouth. No one was home but I’d never experienced that before.
The next 45 minutes was essentially me doing sit ups. Every time I sat up was utter bliss. A radiating warmth coupled with a pressurized pleasure.
I was rock hard but I kept true to the instructions and didn’t touch myself. After a while felt it building. I knew I was going to climax but it wasn’t a typical feeling.
When it hit, it fucking hit.
A wave smashing into my groin, wave after wave smashing over the rest of my body. My skin felt super receptive. I felt every hair follicle on my scalp, and I felt a pressure building again.
I had ended up groaning again, quite loudly, and shot across the room. Multiple volleys of semen flew across the room, managing to hit the opposite wall.
When it was over I was still quivering.
Gasping for air and trying to not to touch my body. I grazed my nipples and nearly had a seizure. I cleaned myself off after 10 minutes trying to regain my composure.
When I stood up I couldn’t walk. My knees were quivering with exhaustion.
It was intense beyond intense. Do try it.”
“It starts as a quivering deep inside of you. “
“It makes your thighs tremble and your muscles contract in a very pleasurable way.
It tightens up the way your penis would when fully erect and you are over aroused.
It feels like a pressure inside of you.
Pressure was felt before, but that was from defecating and this is a different kind of pressure.
You can feel it rise up to your core, all muscles tightening at once… your temples shaking thats how deep into your core this is reaching… and then it releases.
Your ass, inside, and your thighs tremble and contract the way your penis pumps when you ejaculate.
You feel an extreme rush of endorphins and feel good chemicals, a warmth all over your body.
You can barely think, just lay there in an ecstasy and a stupor as wave after wave of pleasure courses through you and all over you.
Your asshole probably feels a tiny bit sore as you/ your partner most likely had been a bit too rough in the heat of the moment.”
“My husband says that it is slightly less intense, but more widespread. “
“He feels regular orgasms are more focused on his genitals but a prostate orgasm is a whole body sensation.
He can also have multiple ones and they usually build in intensity with each one. A series usually leaves him quivering and weak.
He doesn’t ejaculate with an orgasm done only through prostate stimulation but if he adds in penile simulation will finish with an intense orgasm with sensations in between his usual penile and prostate orgasms, but then he can’t have multiple ones.
Likes to do a series with prostate only then finish off with cock stimulation so he ejaculates.
Prostate orgasms are easy and natural for him especially if we’ve used a vibrator at least part of the time.
I’m pretty sure he was actually born to bottom.”
“It’s like seeing through time and space. “
“Seriously the most intense pleasure I’ve ever felt. Y
our whole body is involved, like what I imagine a woman’s orgasm is like.
Pegging is highly recommended, but the best I’ve experienced was a finger massaging the prostate while getting blown.
Sweet baby Odin.”
“I tried it once by myself because it appears to becoming more mainstream and accepted so I thought I might as well give it a whirl and see what all the hype is about. “
“Personally, I wasn’t impressed (first time so I was probably doing it wrong).
I remember the best sensations I got were when my fingers came out of my butt.
It just felt like I was dropping a satisfactory deuce.”
Authors note: Finger generally doesn't feel so great compared to a toy.
“The pleasure is a full-body feeling, rather than focus on the genitals.“
“The orgasm itself isn’t always really intense, but I get this really weird sort of “body high” that can last for a few hours afterward: A generally warm, relaxed, and euphoric feeling.
I get tingles all over my entire body and my arms and legs feel heavier, too.
It’s an intense experience, so I’m not always in the mood for it.
I would only consider having a prostate orgasm on a when when I I don’t have to run out of the house and be productive.
I just want to kind of sit around and think “Holy shit…” for awhile.”
“They’re hands down the best orgasms I’ve ever had with my girlfriend. “
“We haven’t done it in a while, not for any reason in particular, just hasn’t made it to the menu lately. But it’s incredible.
To put it simply a regular ejaculatory orgasm can run the spectrum of mild to wild and is more of a physical release.
A p-gasm is the only time I’ve felt a full body convulsion during orgasm, what I think to be close to a female orgasm.
After a p-gasm the feeling is different and the bond with my girlfriend was never stronger.
It’s a deeper orgasm and borderlines with a full body/nervous system experience as opposed to a more simply physical release.
Hope this helps!”
#3— How To Have a Prostate Orgasm?
Alright, so you know there's tons of pleasure in there..
But how do you have one?
Note: I also have a longer, more detailed prostate milking guide here.
First, here is how to find your P-spot:
You definitely need a lube for this and tons of time.
I presume you will do it by yourself.
Also note that most guys recommend using a toy, a prostate massager for better effects.
Because frankly, your fingers get tired. If you've ever done G-spot massage for her you know exactly what I mean.
With vibrating prostate massagers you just get the massager in and keep squeezing those butt muscles for pleasure.
With a finger you get in and you press and move your finger the most pleasurable way you can find.
It's all experimentation to find what you like the best.
Again I've written a super-detailed prostate milking guide here.
Oh, check this video that explains prostate massaging from more medical point of view:
And here are other men best prostate milking tips:
“I think it’s more a matter of hitting and massaging your prostate consistently with whatever you use. “
“I don’t need vibration for prostate massage and orgasms (PO’s), but it’s up to you how you do it and enjoy it.
I wouldn’t call PO’s mind blowing, but I’m also much older than most men here.
I would call massage itself and PO’s when I have them as extremely pleasant and sometimes better than a regular masturbated orgasm.
If you have any other questions let me know.
This is a bit long, but just to give you as much direction as I can.
I suggest you use a toy, as your fingers may not be long enough.
But as I say here, if you can reach it, your fingers are a great way to do it. I put the short version of how to find your prostate in caps.
I’m a doctor but not an expert on prostates. I began doing my own prostate massage about a month ago since I’d heard about it and wanted another sexual outlet if possible, being single right now and having trouble orgasming.
I’ve had good success with it, it’s extremely enjoyable, doesn’t require an erection at all, and isn’t affected by my medication.
All other normal anal recommendations should be followed, like lots of lubrication and using only toys with flared bases.
For specific prostate massage, once you have a finger or toy inside you, you aim to push on your prostate, which is a small gland that adds fluid as part of normal semen.
It’s located a couple of inches more or less up from the anus on the front side of your rectal wall.
Depending on your finger length and dexterity (a lot of men can’t hit it with their own fingers, including me) you can do a great job massaging your prostate with your finger(s).
That has the advantage of you learning where it is and being able to actually feel what you’re doing.
You can also do a good job with a toy like a dildo or one specifically built at an angle to massage the prostate.
To do it, you insert the, let’s say, finger or toy and point towards the front, and start pushing gently on your rectal wall in front of the anus.
You move gently higher up and intermittently push until either you feel a gland (like a soft walnut) and/or you suddenly notice it feels much different.
You’ll probably say it feels like you have to pee all of a sudden. That’s the prostate.
The “need to pee” feeling isn’t urine, but prostate fluid you’re pushing out of the prostate into the inside back part of the penis.
You’ll have to get used to it, but you keep on massaging the prostate and you’ll feel the fluid flow all the way down and out the tip of your penis.
You’ll see whitish pre-come-like liquid dripping out of your tip which means you’re doing it right.
Once you’re used to it, most guys including me enjoy the whole massage/fluid moving feeling — it’s a lot like the internal portion of a male orgasm.
At some point continuing your massage, your body will notice the fluid moving and give you a contraction around the prostate/internal penis to push all the fluid out — that’s your “prostate orgasm”, and you’ll see another spurt of pre-come whitish liquid come out.
You can do all this with a toy as well, which is the way I do it for myself, but you should figure out which you like and works better for you.
Some men even think they’re as good or better than a normal penis/erection orgasm.
Another feature is that you may be able to have a regular penile orgasm right after the prostate massage — I’ve done that a couple of times.
As I wrote earlier, a woman’s finger(s) may reach far enough and be all you need to do prostate massage.
I can’t reach far enough (long fingers but poor angle) so I use a toy.
What I use is the nJoy PureWand which is a smooth steel curved bar with a different sized ball at either end.
It’s pretty expensive (on sale now for about $67 at BetweenTheSatinSheets.com where I bought mine — no affiliation) but it works best for me because it’s long and firm enough to massage well.
Other toys are specifically made for prostate stimulation but I don’t have experience with them except for one by Tantus, which worked fairly well before the nJoy arrived. “
“A Quick Guide to Prostate Milking”
“First of all…
No. Playing with your butt doesn’t make you gay. This seems to be the thing stopping most men from playing with their prostates.
It stopped me, and trust me when I say: I regret not starting years ago, I was missing out.
You might also be wondering why it’s possible to have multiple orgasms.
The reason is that when you masturbate regularly and you have an orgasm, you also ejaculate.
Ejaculation is followed by the refractory period, where it is “physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms”.
However, when you have orgasms via prostate stimulation you don’t ejaculate and therefore there is no refractory period, and you can keep going. To give you an idea, I’ve had orgasms that are 10 seconds apart from each other.
Second of all
I find it that a lot of this requires the right state of mind. I need to relax in order to be able to really get into it.
I’ve had my prostate toys in (I’ll get to the toys below) for literally an hour, and if I’m not in the right mood, nothing happens.
In contrast, I’ve had orgasms less than 5 minutes in when I’m really into it.
The most important thing for me is being home alone, so I don’t have to worry about making noise, and also knowing I’ll be home alone for enough time and I won’t be interrupted half way. I shut off my phone and dim the lights.
This might seem ridiculous, and trust me, I would’ve thought so as well.
When I masturbate regularly, I can just go whenever, wherever. I can do it in 3 minutes or 30. It’s not science.
This, on the other hand, is more difficult. So all these things help.
You will need at least one hour. At least to get started and to explore the sensations.
My “sessions” usually last between 2 and 3 hours, and include well over 30 orgasms. It’s an intense experience.
Now that I’m more experienced, I find it that I can have “quick” 30 minute sessions with multiple orgasms (I couldn’t do this when I wrote this originally).
I find the first orgasm to be key. Once the first orgasm comes, the rest will flow very naturally.
I have session peaks where I have non-stop orgasms (e.g. 10 orgasms in 10 minutes), and then I’ll have valleys where I don’t have orgasms (e.g. maybe also 10 minutes).
However, even the orgasm-less valleys are amazing. They’re just pure pleasure.
The most important tip I can give is don’t touch your dick.
Trust me, it will be extremely tempting, and it will feel way better than usual when you do. But if you touch your dick, you get a regular (yet much more intense than usual) orgasm, with ejaculation.
So you blew it (hehe), you won’t want to continue and you’ve missed out on the experience.
Equipment (i.e. toys and fingers)
I’ve used several prostate toys on myself, as well as my fingers.
I’ll only mention and assess two of the toys I use.
Aneros brand toys are very popular, but I have no experience with them.
Lube!!! This is the most important thing, and you can’t have too much of it. If your toy isn’t silicone, you can use silicone based lube.
Otherwise, you’re fine with water based. For my silicone based lube, I use Wet Platinum.
For my water based lube, I use Sliquid “Sassy”.
Fingers: I’ve given myself great orgasms using my fingers. However, I’ve only been successful if I’m at a session peak (as I mention in “experience overview” above).
If I try to give myself an orgasm from zero using my fingers, I will fail. Not only will I not get an orgasm, I probably won’t even enjoy it that much.
From what I understand, this is not uncommon.
I will suggest two ways of going at it. The first is the one I see more commonly recommended.
Lie on your side, with your bottom leg straight and the top leg bent so that your knee comes close to your chest.
Similar to this (if someone has a better image, please provide it).
You can then reach from behind using your top hand and either use your thumb, or your index and/or middle fingers.
Personally, I don’t find this position very useful, because my arm quickly gets tired/cramped and I can’t keep going.
The second position, which is the one I use, is sitting on my knees, and reaching from the front using one or many fingers.
Once inside, bend your fingers towards your front (i.e. point to your belly button). You should feel it there. It’s softer than everything else.
You can press it, or you can massage it similar to how you would massage a g-spot on a girl (use the “come here” motion). Usually a combination of both works great.
Vibrating toys: I usually start my sessions with a vibrating toy. The best thing about vibrating toys, in my opinion, is that you just slide them in and forget about them.
Hands free. Once I put it in and turn it on, I try to enjoy every sensation.
Really try to start getting into it. The orgasm doesn’t matter, just the current sensations.
I flex my kegels a bit, and that changes where and how the toy puts pressure in my prostate.
I flex it a lot, and it changes again. I quickly flex and unflex, and I’m basically massaging my prostate. Or I can just do nothing.
Try experimenting with that to find what you like and go with that.
Another great thing about these is that unlike using manual toys or your fingers, you have no control over the speed, intensity. This means that if you’re nearing the orgasm and you, for some reason, want to lower the intensity, you can’t.
This produces super hard orgasms for me. Also, while I’m having an orgasm, it doesn’t stop, which makes the orgasms even stronger. This also helps me have consecutive orgasms.
Sometimes, I’m trying to catch my breath after an intense orgasm, and the next one comes so I cant, and then the next one comes and so on. It can be very intense.
But it’s greatest strength is also it’s weakness.
Since you can’t control the speed, sometimes you just want to go faster or harder, and you can’t.
But the manual toys are just for that! In case you’re interested, I use the Nexus Revo 2.
It’s a bit pricey, but I’d pay twice what I did knowing the experiences it’s given me.
The best two features are that it has a head that spins, on top of the vibration, to further massage the prostate.
It’s fucking magic. It also has a battery that lasts for extremely long (I’ve used it for 3 hours with no problem.
It’s supposed to last for more than 4, IIRC).
There’s nothing more frustrating than batteries dying out half way through.
Manual toys: (i.e. dildos) These are also great. You will find different shapes, girths and flexibility.
I use the NJoy Pure Wand. Again, it’s a bit pricey but worth every penny.
It is stainless steel, so it’s very hard and heavy, which makes it extremely easy to manipulate.
It has a perfect curve, so it’s extremely comfortable to use.
No weird angles for stroking it in and out.
What I love about manual toys is that as opposed to the vibrators, I have full control over these.
You can achieve orgasm by lightly massaging the prostate, or intensely stroking it, or just applying pressure to it.
I’ll get into more technique below.
The disadvantages about these is that you will get tired and it’s difficult to keep the intensity to the max when you’re having orgasms that make your whole body shake.
I have a routine before I even get started. I will poop one hour before I intend to start my session.
Really try to clear yourself out.
Then, 15 minutes before my session starts I’ll take a quick shower.
I’ll pay special attention to my butthole, which should be left sparkling clean. I take the opportunity to be extra meticulous and maybe even start turning myself on by massaging it a bit.
After this, I’m ready to get started. Another thing I do, which may or may not work for you, is smoke weed.
I know not everyone is into that, and that it might not have the same effect on every one, but I find it that it is extremely easy for me to relax and to focus on only what I’m doing when I’ve smoked. So take that as you will.
First session ever
Get ready for “bad” news: you might not have an orgasm on your first try. That’s fine.
I had a prostate toy for about 2 years. I used it on and off and I didn’t have an orgasm from it until recently.
I realize now that the main problem is that the batteries would constantly die on me, but even when they held up, I didn’t have an orgasm.
One thing that was always for sure: huge orgasm when I finally masturbated. Also, lots and lots of semen.
I found it amazing to masturbate while the toy was in. So as I’ve said before, just focus on the current sensations.
It might be a while until you have an orgasm, but I promise you’ll enjoy it and improve your orgasms regardless, so you’re already winning.
I think it’s important to try to focus on the current sensations, rather than on the orgasm.
Focus on what you’re feeling, not on what you’re not feeling.
First prostate orgasm ever
As I said above, you might not have an orgasm on your first try, but after you have the first orgasm, it will be easier to get the next, since you’ll know exactly what to do.
Your mind will be blown away by how amazing and much more intense this orgasm is.
The first time I had a prostate orgasm, it wasn’t until about 10 seconds after the orgasm that I realized I had had one.
It was so intense and so different, I was too into it to even realize what was going on.
I’ll say that in a different way: the orgasm was so intense, I couldn’t even process anything else, including that I was having an orgasm.
It sound ridiculous, but the orgasms can be ridiculously intense.
After the first orgasm, I usually go into cruise control; they just keep coming without me doing much.
And they keep coming for, quite literally, hours.
I can’t even keep count in a session. I don’t even care to keep count.
No session is complete without a normal jerk-off at the end. I will sometimes go with my hand and sometimes use a fleshlight.
Either way, it will be AMAZING.
Sometimes I can last 10–15 minutes, and sometimes I can’t even last 1 because it’s so intense.
Both are different but great in their own ways.
Get ready to cleanup, because the amount of cum that will come out is unbelievable.
The most important part: technique
How to find your prostate: If you have a hands free toy then you’re pretty much set. Just put it in and everything should align itself perfectly. If you use your fingers or a manual toy, then it shouldn’t be hard to find your prostate. It’s about 2 inches inside your rectum. If you’re using your fingers, point them towards your belly button and you will feel it. It’s soft and round.
How to stimulate it: Vibration works great for me.
You can also massage it up and down (if you’re using your fingers doing the “come here” motion) or in different patterns like sideways or circularly.
I also find that with manual toys I can just shake them very hard to make them “vibrate” and it feels great.
Lastly, just by putting pressure on it works.
Positions: I find that varying the position I’m in greatly improves the experience.
Whenever orgasm frequency or intensity starts declining, I just switch positions and it’s like a fresh start.
Here are a few positions I recommend: ass up face down, on all 4s (the “wrong one” actually works great as well), I don’t know what you call this one, on back knees up, on back knees to chest, feet to the sky(usually against a wall).
I can keep going.
Standing up straight, standing up bent forward, squatting, laying on your stomach.
Pretty much everything I can think of I’ve tried and it has worked.
Bonus: Perineum and asshole orgasms I’ve managed a few times to give myself orgasms by just rubbing my Perineum and asshole (externally) with my Pure Wand.
It only works after I’m already very worked up, and usually just one per session.
Keeping the toys in I had some trouble keeping my vibrator in at first.
I would sometimes contract everything so hard during an orgasm that I would push it out.
Holding it in distracted me so I needed a solution.
I just use a belt that I wrap around my waist and make sure it hold the toy in.
I usually need to adjust it when I change positions since the angle changes.
#4— What Are The Best Prostate Massagers? & How To Use One?
Using one is easy — just follow the instructions.
The vibrating prostate massagers require insertion and then you just squeeze kegels (PC or butt muscles) to get pleasure.
Then there are manual ones which you manipulate like you would do with the finger — just with the toy.
Make sure you read this massager guide to discover the best prostate toy for you.
The proper toy is crucial to your success.
#5 — Prostate Milking Tips and Stories From Real People
And now let's add some other people stories, more experiences.
Everyone is different, but some things and tips may stick with you and help a lot for you to achieve your first prostate orgasm.
Make sure you go back to read.. as here's just one last story..
I know the article is already pretty long.
“How I achieve my prostate orgasms.”
Let me start by saying I am, by no means, an expert.
But I’ve had some success recently, so my hope is that my experience with prostate stimulation will help some of you out.
WHAT KIND OF PROSTATE ORGASM?
I think this is what most people are referring to when they use the terms “wet prostate orgasm,” “big O” or, often, just “prostate orgasm.”
What I’ve been able to do is experience a “dry orgasm” or “waves” of prostate orgasms. Light quivering to intense shaking, all while clenching almost uncontrollably. It feels… amazing.
I begin, of course, by showering and cleaning my ass. I also use this as an opportunity to finger my asshole a little bit to loosen it up and turn myself on.
Next I lube up and insert a small butt plug.
Typically I go and smoke some weed and watch some TV at this point. While watching TV I often do kegels; the plug is too small to reach my prostate, but it gets my ass warmed up nonetheless.
When I’m ready, I smoke some more weed and head to my bed, where I take out the plug and lube up a plastic vibrator. (Idk what kind of vibrator it is… a girl I used to date and I bought it at a sex store.
It’s probably an inch at its widest and 4–5” insertable if I had to guess. The best part is, it’s shaped kind of like a butt plug, so after about 4”, it stays in, hands-free.)
While lying on my back with my upper torso and head held up by pillows, I typically turn on the vibrator and insert it with one hand, gently rubbing my perineum with the other.
Slowly (by which I mean over the course of 2–10 minutes), I push the vibrator farther and farther in, applying constant pressure along the front wall of my ass.
Between this and the exterior stimulation, my ass quickly begins to clench up. My dick begins swelling and eventually becomes rock hard.
Basically, it goes as follows. When I begin, I need to rub my perineum and hold a kegel to get myself going.
I literally feel the insides of my ass surrounding the vibrator.
The vibrations soon lead to the orgasm. So long as I hold the vibrator in place by clenching my ass, I’m pretty much orgasming nonstop.
This is hard to do, so what I find is that I’ll experience an orgasm for 1–5 minutes until I let go of the kegel and it dies down a bit.
At this point, if the vibrator is not fully inserted yet, I push it farther in, which often cues another orgasm.
Sometimes I’ll switch positions (sitting up, holding my weight with my arms straight down is a go-to for me) and the orgasms just automatically start again.
It’s intense. I’m pretty sure I go cross-eyed sometimes.
Other times, I accidentally let out a whimper or a whole moan.
Within 30–40 minutes, my body has normally reached its limit. I think I could probably orgasm more, but I’m often pretty tired at this point.
(Also, my ass is accustomed to the size and vibrations of the vibrator, so I think I’d need to buy a bigger one or a suction cup dildo or something to keep going.)
I wrap up by turning the vibrator to its highest intensity and holding it firmly against my prostate.
Then I lube up my dick and jerk off until I cum.
I definitely cum more than normal, but it doesn’t shoot super far or anything crazy unless it’s been over a week since I last came. Regardless, it feels really, really good.
- Don’t touch your penis. It’s pretty much game over if you jerk off for even a second. You can still have a super-intense, amazing penile orgasm — but not a prostate orgasm.
- I think of prostate stimulation as almost an act of mindfulness. In other words, your mind needs to be completely focused on the sensations in your ass, otherwise you lose whatever momentum you have. That means…
- Don’t watch porn while you do it. If you need use it to turn yourself on that’s cool, but it quickly becomes a distraction.
- Don’t worry about making yourself cum. If you’re thinking about that, you’re not focusing on the feeling, so it won’t happen. Trust me, you’ll know when it happens… and once you do, you’ll know what to do to make it happen again.
I hope you all find this helpful. Happy to answer any questions you have OR take any tips on how to finally achieve the super-O.”
Bringing It All Together
Now when you know what's in store for you.
It's time to learn the devilish details.
Start with guide to acquire the two main pieces of the puzzle:
The right process + the right arousal. (the main guide…and make sure you scroll till end to get the email course that dives deeper down the rabbit hole)