DP Sex 101: What Does Double Penetration Feel Like?

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Double penetration can be tons of fun if you do it right. It's not like it looks in porn, but with proper preparation and expectations, it can be a mind-blowing experience.

After over 20 hours of research you'll find the best DP sex enthusiast stories, explanations of how it feels like, and how you can do it successfully yourself.

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Is double penetration as good as it looks in the movies? 

Or is it only reserved for naughtiest couples with high pain tolerance?

Here's the best quick explanation of how double penetration feels like:

“If you want the truth, the equivalent would be what it feels like for a guy getting head while also taking the best shit of your life.
My body locked up during it cause it was so much good at once.”

Source: ladysativa710


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What Is Double Penetration?

Double penetration usually refers to two penises or sex toys inserted into woman's body during the sexual intercourse.

Usually it refers to vaginal and anal holes.

While orally also technically counts as double penetration, that's not what people usually mean.

It's recommended for beginners to start with smaller butt plugs or simply finger (with condom on it or glove for hygiene) in the butt.

Or even safer for woman is to try it first with dildos like a bad dragon dildo and butt plug by herself…

The ultimate double penetration is during threesome — two guys, one lady.

That's what we've seen in the adult movies…and that's the kink that some want to experience when they mean double penetration…

Here's video actually asking the question about DP to pornstars. Very interesting insights:


woman explaining what does double penetration feel like

What Does Double Penetration Feel Like?

To me it felt like just something different, exciting, kinky…

And because of that it was super arousing and sexy — it was very hard not to orgasm quickly because of all excitement.

Both for me and my partner — we loved it since we took our time.

I guess that's the biggest downside to DP and anything anal related — if you want it to be pleasurable, it's gonna take time to open butt for receiving.

And if you need to get the third partner, there are the logistics of it.

But as somebody smart has said: where there is will, there is a way.

Here's other people descriptions of sensations of DP:


“It’s a very intense feeling of fullness, edging on pain. Depends on partners, and your level of relaxation.”

Source: Nixie_D


“It’s amazing .. a toy and my partner.

I would only suggest it if you enjoy anal.

Otherwise don’t just try it straight away…”

Source: StaunchCalves


woman and fruit showing double penetration

“Double penetration is okay.”

“I’ve done it a few times with different partners, and would recommend it to anyone curious about it, given the right partners.

That said, it was fun, pleasurable, but not really great.

It is a bit awkward to pull off, and the movement with the person on bottom is usually somewhat restricted.

I prefer using a vibe during sex, which is harder to do during DP.

As far as what it feels like, it’s basically like having anal and vaginal sex at the same time.

There are a lot of nerve endings in both areas and can be very pleasurable, but if the guy in the back is too large for you (or you aren’t properly prepared to take him) it can hurt.

Otherwise it feels great and has the added mental turn on of being taken by two guys (as long as their attitude is in synch with mine).

It’s also important that the male partners are comfortable having sex near each other.

They can’t be put off by having their legs rub up against another dude’s hairy legs.

They have to be prepared to have another man’s face 2 or 3 feet away from their own, watching him make fuck faces, listening to him moan and groan.

Also, they have to be comfortable feeling another man’s cock rubbing against their own through the thin layer of skin that separates the anus and the vagina.

If you want to know what it feels like, have your partner use her finger or a small dildo on your ass while giving you a hand job or a blow job.

Anal stimulation in conjunction with genital stimulation is quite pleasurable, as long as you use plenty of lube and don’t take in more than you can handle.”

Source: Anonymous


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“I love double penetration. “

“It often happens when I am on top of one man and other men enter me from behind.

I have also been double penetrated when on my side and one man is in front of me and another is behind me.

I have had two men (one vaginally, the other anally) and I have had two men (in vagina) at the same time.

This is the fullest you can feel.

And it feels amazing.

All the men who have ever double penetrated me have wanted to do it again.

They say it feels incredible to them, too.

If it feels as good for them as it does for me, I can see why.”

Source: Husbandisacuck


DP Sex Experience with Third Person

“Last April I (20 Female) and my SO (22 Male) brought our friend (19 Male) home with us from a party.”

“We’d discussed it before and had been flirting for months.

When we got home, we jumped straight in bed. I started giving them both handjobs and alternating blowjobs.

After a lot of touching and moaning, I focused my mouth on our friend and my SO started warming up my ass.

He slid into me and I moaned with my mouth full with our friend’s cock.

I then climbed on top of our friend and rode him while my SO tried to stay in my ass, but we couldn’t make that position work.

So, I laid down on top of my SO with his cock in my ass and our friend went to town fucking me.

It was by far the most intense perma-gasm I have ever experienced.

Then, as previously discussed, they both pulled out and came on my face.

It was absolutely glorious.

I can’t wait to have two cocks pounding away inside of me again.

Double penetration had been a fantasy of mine since I was about 15 watching porn, but let me tell you, that night was so far beyond how good it looks in porn…I don’t even have words…”

Source: LateKissy


woman excited being double penetrated

“Female. I tried double penetration, years ago. “

“We did anal and used a vibrator vaginally. Roughly this position but I was leaning on the bed.

To date, the best sex I’ve ever had.

Multiple orgasms.

I came close to passing out from all the screaming and moaning.

It took me a little bit to catch my breath when we were done. 12/10 would do again.”

Source: 10031945


“I’m female and have done double penetration once.”

“I found it mostly incredibly overwhelming, to the point where the physical pleasure and arousal maybe took a backseat.

The sensory input was insane, much more than when a partner fucked me with his dick and a strapon at the same time — two people, two bodies, trying to get the rhythms right, trying not to push anybody back out.

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I was trying to process all that and I guess that didn’t leave a lot of space for actual pleasure.

It was hot and I’d like to do it again, but that first time was definitely not the OMGbestthingever I’d fantasised about.

Maybe it takes some practice.”

Source: Whatchamathing


woman being penetrated

“Having one dick in each hole is hands down the best feeling in the world. “

“It’s not something I can easily describe.

At least to me it’s not just about the dicks, it’s also about being “squeezed” between two men.

Getting kisses, nibbles, licks, caresses and so on from both of them while they’re fucking me.

Hearing them grunt and moan and feeling their hands on me is just… rawr

I mean the feeling of fullness is wonderful, but it’s really the whole package (heh) that makes it an incredible experience.

I have the most intense orgasms with two guys.

We also tried the two dicks in my vagina thing a few times but it’s a bit awkward and was uncomfortable for them.”

Source: Anonymous


woman preparing in bath for double penetration

(Preparation) How To  Do Double Penetration?

The starting point is simply do anal first.

If you enjoy vaginal sex and anal sex, that's when you know you're ready for dual penetration.

Try it with the smaller butt plug at first while penetrating her vaginally with penis. 


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It's handy to have several size butt-plugs to slowly increase the difficulty (anal training).

Then you can try the strapon so the man could both penetrate woman vaginally and anally (it's tricky to get it right, but possible).

Or you can use suction cup dildo and position it at the wall while fucking in doggy style position.

But yes, the steps are like that — start small, start simple.

Then to do the real double penetration you'll need to find a willing third partner.

It may be easier (during it all) to find another couple and get everyone involved than simply a single guy.

Oh, and you definitely need a good sense of humour in the party as there will be lots of touching and getting into position.

You can try different dating apps, FetLife, Tinder, be safe…and have fun!


Other People Double Penetration Tips & Suggested Positions


“Start small and use lube.”

“If she is used to anal that’s half the battle.

Once she is use to that you can slowly work the dildo in.

Let her control the penetration.

Remember foreplay.

Get her as worked up as you can.

Personally I love my husband in my ass an a toy in my pussy.

The feeling being so full is incredible.

Feeling him stretch my ass while my pussy is stuffed drives me over the edge.

Good luck to you both.”

Source: Pokeywife

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“Relax. Use plenty of lube.”

“The guy who is penetrating you anally can’t be too shy, or he won’t be able to get in.

It may be better for you to have him inside you first, then let the other guy penetrate you vaginally.

If there is a penis size difference, you may want to have the thinner guy handle the anal penetration, at least to start with.

I think that, if you are willing, you’ll find the biggest challenge to simply be to make the angles work.

Once you have it figured out, you’ll be golden.”

Source: alittlebirdy1


man showing best dp position

Best position for double penetration?

On knees doggy or her laying on back on couch.

For first time might plug her ass with a quality plug.

Then you proceed to penis in vagina.

In another round you could try penis in anal and a toy in her vagina… That might be more difficult like doing it with sex furniture.

The plug will really stay in her ass easily and that makes solo DP easier.

You can also attach a string to the plug so you can pull on the string and wiggle the plug during the sex.

In my experience solo DP with a dildo in her vagina and penis in anal there are issues with room and keeping the dildo in.”

Source: Anonymous


“Have you tried taking a walk through your local adult store? “

“You’ll get all kinds of ideas.

I try to buy from them at least sometimes but the markup is steep so online may be a better option once you figure out what you want.”

Source: allovertheplaces


“Where to find a willing partner for double penetration?”

“Swingers club — there are usually a fair number of guys willing to participate, and it’s a safe, discreet, and respectful environment.

Talk to both men before, and go over what you’re comfortable with, what they’re comfortable with doing, etc.”

Source: millendercenterstop


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Bringing It All Together

Alright, I hope this guide was helpful to demystify the reality of double penetration.

It's less scary and more exciting than it seems from the first look, huh?

Do try it and you'll have better relationships!

Variety and change is key to exciting sexual life! 

While you're at it, explore getting a prostate massage as well.

Cheerio 🍷 

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